I need some tips here.
Met this girl and she ended up asking me for my number and then gave me a missed call so I would get her number too.
We've been chatting via text for a bit in the last few days. So I decided I wanted to talk to her on the phone. I found our texts were so long and it just seems like it would be easier to talk on the phone.
She's been upset with her day and I guess is kinda down lately. So I thought I'd call her or get her to talk on the phone to cheer her up.
I told her later that night as we were texting that I would call her tomorrow evening. She was tired and I thought I'd let her sleep. Now tomorrow came and called her around the time I usually text her.
She didn't pick-up and eventually it went to voice mail and I did not leave a message. I'm assuming it will show a missed call from me.
So the question is do I just leave it now? I mean just move on unless she calls or contacts me? It's frustrating, because when I've asked to call her in the past she said she was busy or was tired from work. And I do know she is a legitly very busy person working and with school at the same time.
I hate to say it, but it seems a but rude to not contact me back. I mean especially when I said I would call in the evening the next day and she acknowledges it and says " alright, ttyl". But hey it is what it is.. I get she might be busy. Normally she gets back to me within a day if she doesn't reply to my text right away. But this was a phone call... so yeah.
Maybe someone can pass on some expertise?
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Give it a couple days. No response? Leave a text to see what's up. If still no response, move on.
The idea is that you've already did your part, so essentially, it would be her turn to follow-up. But hey, life is crazy and sh*t happens, so that's why you try to re-establish contact after giving her enough time and space as you deem necessary. But if you get ignored again, that's your cue to bail out.0