I am 18 and I work as a lifeguard at a water park. There is this guy named Tom who I hit it off with our very first day last year. Now its our third summer working together and things have been getting more and more flirty. We never used to hang out outside of work except for one time we met up at a hockey game and talked for about a minute or two, but now we have been hanging out (going out to eat after work, getting water ice, going to a movie). And the way we talk to each other now is just so much flirtier than usual. Nothing has happened yet because I'm afraid that if we start dating it will interfere with work, but I don't want him to think I only want to be his friend because I really like him.
Would it really be inappropriate to date him?
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For a lifeguard? You don't really work 'together', you're in separate chairs, and you don't usually have to worry what other lifeguards think, do you? It's not a gossip mill like an office would be, and I doubt there's any established policy against dating other lifeguards, right?
So what's holding you back? Nothing I can see!0