an old friend/lover of mine want to hangout with me and he said he misses my kisses and wants to kiss me like before, well I'm scared and I feel like hanging out with him would be the wrong thing to do I can't deny it I miss his kisses as well but I remember that back then I caught feelings for him and when I told him I was falling for him he told me he didn't feel the same way and it tore me apart I was so hurt so I stopped talking to him and it's been 4 years since we last seen each other and now hw wants to see me and kiss me:/ I told him that I'm not trying to get hurt again and he said that was the past, what do you think about this? what should I do? should I go with it or stay away?
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He's using you. Stay away from him. What you want and what he wants are two different things. You'll probably just get hurt by it.
Look at what you said. He didn't say anything about missing you, or going out doing things with you, he just said he misses the kissing. Unless there is more to it than what you said, then it's purely physical.
If he tries to claim there is more to it, then maybe hang with him for a couple months with no physical contact. See if he sticks around.0