Like men that I don't personally know? My husband works a lot he is a stagehand for a production company on the weekends and is working at a convenient store so he's gone a lot so doesn't mind it at all because he knows how bored and lonely I get but a girl friend of mine is making a huge deal about it to the point she told a mutual friend she thinks I'm cheating. I am not, could not and would not. The only reason my text buddys are men is because right there! a lot of the girls out here are fake and stuck up gossip queens. Yeah I can be a flirt but only slightly and am always classy. I don't send dirty naked or barley dressed pictures we just chat and tell stories and be dorky.I love talking to new people and hearing their thought opinions and story... I don't think that's bad of me...what's your opinion?
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Of the three mentioned, only your husband is on planet Earth - he trusts you and only wants the best for you, so you have free rein to have idle hands = the devil's workshop. Privileged with free time to play with fire and feeling superior to 90% that will eventually fall into temptation. That said, I DO believe you are of the 10% deeply in love with hubby & can have many guy friends w/o cheating ... some of these guys won't "get it" mentally or physically.
So your friend is wrong but revealed SHE would easily fall into temptation AND has a bit of jealousy over your loose rein AND maybe some hidden fear you're going to move in on some of her hunting acreage.
I must say your solution to killing time, waiting for work bound hubby time alone really is a dead end. Regardless that he may prefer you not working so much, getting a job yourself IS the better solution to chatting guys: 1) you have turned free time into money, self-respect and contribution to the world that comes in handy during any tough times ahead; 2) you allow hubby to cut back on work so he can spend more tet-a-tet time with you = better than other guys, that's why you chose him!1