I seem to hold an almost immediate hatred of women who are 9s/10s.
I think it's because in my experience they tend to be bitches, since looks has warped their minds (it's natural to some extent). I find if I'm in the company of 9s/10s I generally blank them or scorn them, since most of the time I'm right in that they're bitches.
Somebody will say it's because I'm resentful they won't date me, lol.. hardly. I think seeking to dating the hottest woman all the time is infantile, and only denotes insecurity.
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That's what a jealous guy sounds like. Bitter, jealous, and hateful.
You obviously haven't coped with the fact that you're not attractive or valuable enough as a man for women YOU DEEM 9s & 10s to have sex with you and accept you or want you as her sexual partner.
An emotionally healthy way to cope would be to say, "obviously I want women who I consider to be a 9 or 10 on a scale of how much I would want to be with a woman like her. Unfortunately, life has showed me that I'm not a 9 or 10 as a man. So, the lesson I have to learn is that I don't deserve a 9 or 10 when I don't have a 9 or 10 to give. Now, I just need to learn what I am, what I have to offer, and then realistically adjust my desires for what kind of partner I seek accordingly."
What you're saying is, "I - nobody else - I rank these women as a 9 or 10. That means I want them. I find them attractive. I'm just angry that they don't find me attractive. They make me feel like sh*t. So, I lash out an take it out on them."
That's not emotionally healthy man.3