I don't go out much so I decided to give okcupid a try. After making my profile, getting a few pictures, up I start to message some girls. Now let me say I send pretty good messages, I do read their profile, I mention something, I'm often fairly funny or witty. I haven't gotten a single message back. So I find out (from girls ask guys) that any fairly attractive girl can get over 20 messages a day! Now I'm not ugly, but I'm no Channing Tatum either, so I basically have no chance when girls can pick out the hottest guys from the large pool who message them. I'm not desperate and sorry ladies but you have to weigh less than me for me to find you attractive (it's not that hard), so I am basically lost in this sea of average guys. I know there are some success stories, but if a girl who normally would have maybe 20 guys hit on her in a month is getting 20 guys a day, how do I even compete?
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Dude, do not worry. I have also had NO luck with OKCupid at all. I haven't had a single date in a year off of there. Do yourself a favor and make a profile on Match, or try POF. I put one up on POF and dated a girl for 6 months. Then barely a month later I had two hot dates lined up and the first was so good that I cancelled the 2nd... I have no idea what's up with OKCupid to be honest. I, like you left many messages of all sorts and barely heard from anyone. And I am pretty sure I'm a pretty attractive guy, too. I have a great job, a nice car and am into bodybuilding. Not to sound arrogant, but I know there's a crap load of women that would love to be dating me. It may be the same for you. You just have to be brief and honest in your profile. Post recent, good pics that represent the way you really look. And don't divulge too much in your profile. I changed my entire summary drastically one night and then the next few weeks got several messages from attractive women I didn't even message. Just try POF, trust me.0