I am casually dating this guy and other people as well. So, to make a long story short. He doesn't text me GM anymore, or sweet messages more so after we 've became intimate (no sex).
One night, I asked him to call me so I could hear his voice before I go to bed and just leaving sweet text messages, such as I would love to kiss him in the rain. He didn't respond to any of those, but he called me the next day in the afternoon then texted, where are you?
I am no longer interested in this guy romantically anymore ( he slacked off a lot) because I feel like he isn't putting any effort into any of this. When I notice that a guy puts me at the bottom of his list, I immediately lose feelings for him. I want to have lunch/dinner with him as a friend, but I think that he might try to become intimate with me again?
Should I tell him how I feel? ( Seems like he just wants to have sex with me w/o the romance...)or just not talk to him anymore?
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Simply tell him you aren't interested anymore and you are ready to go your desperate way.
If he asks why, then be honest with him. If he's acting like this now, could you only imagine how unstimulated he'll be in a full blown relationship.
Staying friends, is also a waste of time. Simply cut your losses and move on.2