I've been dating a guy for a month now, he's been really nice, texting me, calling me every day, he thinks I'm amazing, beautiful etc, shares a lot about his life with me, wants to know everything about me, considerate etc. I even found him a bit
desperate but I didn't mind cause I enjoyed his attention. A few days ago I noticed that I've just started to develop feelings towards him and started panicking and started not trusting him. I started worrying that his feelings might have changed and he was going to leave me. I didn't really have any reason for that cause he's been very keen on me all the time (except one thing: I added him on Facebook, and he didn't accept my friend request. I still don't understand this,it was really weird.). The whole thing had become extremely uncomfortable, couldn't eat or sleep etc. so I told him yesterday on chat that I'm a bit cnfused about him. I also told him I took it easy till now but it's been changing and started to feel insecure. And what he replied to this was really shocking. He said we are just dating and having fun together to see where it goes. I was shocked I really didn't expect this. It's just getting mixed signals, very mixed, with extremities (taking it too seriously at the very beginning, being way too desperate and then it turns out that we were just see where it goes? :S) After, he started to complain that he doesn't like the idea that I don;t trust him and is a very bad sign at the begginning of a relationship. I didn't mention the Facebook issue. Then he went offline. Since then he stopped texting and I haven't seen him online at all yesterday which is veryunusual, he initiates conversations every single day. He didn'teven go online. How can I fix it with him? I just think I'vebeen too paranoid andshould have just kept my doubts for myselfor communicated differently. Any ideas?
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just give him some time, I don't think it is all over just give him some time1