Pass up really good guys with a kid(s), and fall for the loser because he has none... But you have kids yourself.. Why is that?.. And since when did having a kid(s) become a disease?..
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Hmmm I'm honestly not sure. I've never heard of that in my life! She would be a total hypocrite and so wrong for acting like that!
It's not that having kids is a disease, it's that dating someone with kids can sincerely be a pain in the ass. I'm sorry, I hope that doesn't offend you, but I'm just being honest. A lot of people are not even ready to be parents or to be playing a parent's role/having to be a role model because there's a child around. Hell, most of the people having these kids weren't even ready! So it's pretty irritating when you find a great guy who has children and they naturally critique you as a 'mommy figure'. Men and women may say they don't, but we all know they do! If they are good parents, their child will come first but that doesn't mean they are desensitized towards companionship. I think all moms/dads with children consider if the datee would be a good 'mommy or daddy figure' because the kid is not leaving their life and sooner or later they will want companionship from the RIGHT person. Generally, that can be aggravating. Even if the datee embraces the situation, at the end of the day, they have absolutely no legal rights to that child. Things may not work out and they are attached to some kid they'll never see again. As a female, you have to worry about baby mama drama because the mother rightfully so feels replaced in a family unit ESPECIALLY if she's single. If he is your average guy, he may not even have enough money to provide for his children and wine and dine the female. Which could really become annoying if you want to go out and do fun things that cost money. And I hate to say it, but sometimes kids are just outright bratty and rude. It's a phase nonetheless, but it makes things really awkward and uncomfortable for the woman or man their parent is dating because they have to put up with a bad ass kid's behavior.
Just being sincere! I hope you can appreciate that2