So, I went on a date Friday (Okcupid). I thought we had a very good time judging from body language and all that, and when we had to split (rushing to make different trains) she yelled "What, I don't get a hug or anything?" I ran back, gave her a hug, and then she asked me to text her.
Monday,I texted her. The conversation went like this:
Me: Sorry, I didn't text you sooner. Some family things came up this weekend. But I just wanted to let you know I had a great time.
Her (4 hours later): That's ok! Hope everything is alright. I had fun as well!
Me (1 hour later) Nothing too serious, just busy. How was the rest of your weekend?
And then...radio silence..nothing as of 6 p.m. Monday, In the interim, she deleted her Okcupid profile. My friends insist she's just playing coy because I waited three whole days to contact her after the date. I think she's uninterested (call me a pessimist.)
Either way, I'm not really sure what to do from here. Do I even bother reaching out again? Or is the ball in her court?
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Call and ask her out again. We women analyze everything and will do certain things just to see what a guys reaction will be. So don't play games... if you had a great time and like this girl then why haven't you called and asked her out again? Maybe that's what she's waiting for. Who cares how the rest of her weekend went... it wasn't with you. Just sayin, lol. BTW... the ball is ALWAYS in the guys court (as far as us women are concerned). We like to see a man go after what he wants, especially when its US! ;) So don't wait another day and call to ask her out again! Good luck!1