The questions says it all, but let me elaborate on what types of answer that I am looking for.
Men: Do you feel that your dates are less than satisfactory? If so, for what reason do you believe that caused it? Do you blame yourself, do you blame the women for being unfair? What is your reason that you believe to have an unsuccessful date?
Women: Do you feel that your dates are less than satisfactory? If so, for what reason? Is the man treating you badly? Lack of experience? Boring? etc etc
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I don't like that just because I am the man, I always have to plan everything during the first several dates. It is hard to plan activities for several dates in a row that will entertain the other person when I am still getting to know them, and don't understand their likes and dislikes yet. So I would like to have some of the pressure taken off of me. Other than placing that expectation on me, I haven't noticed women being unfair about dating or being overly judgmental like guys are always claiming they are. I think a lot of it is in guys heads.2