Everyone has there first love or first serious relationship. How long did it take you to get over them?
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This is one of the easiest questions on this website. My answer: Never.
I finally gave up trying to "get over" her. I resorted to forfeiting a little, tiny, ceremonial bit of my heart to her (um, in my own mind, not out loud or anything). I said, "This part is yours. You can dance on it, stomp on it, spit on it, snuggle with it, sleep on it, whatever. It's yours to do with as you please, but on one condition: you can't mess with anything else."
And I have to tell you. It works... for me anyway. I know she's still in there, but she can't spill over into any other part of my life. I compromised with myself.0