There was a guy I met online through a Q & A web-site. Anyway, it started out he was just giving me advice on a situation, and then it turned into we were emailing each other on a daily basis. And before we knew it, we were exchanging numbers. He even mentioned he had a wife, and would talk about her. I didn't think much of it, or care because I had a love interest. At the same time, he would always talk about coming to meet me, which I had no interest at the time. However, when it got serious he never mentioned anymore about wanting to meet me, which I found odd? After conversing for some time, the whole wife thing didn't seem real to me. He would talk about going to dinner, a movie but mentioned many times he went alone and just mentioned she's always traveling. Anyway, he asked for my number and said, we could brainstorm about my situation more on the phone. After a couple weeks of talking, we started to develop an attraction. When we talked on the phone, he said his wife travels a lot and is never home. Anyway, don't you find it odd, after developing this attraction he doesn't want to meet me. Just wondering what your thoughts are on this strange situation?
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That is odd, but I would take as sign that something is not right If there is this attraction and a possible made up story of having a wife. It could be a number of easons why, he is indeed attracted to you and the connection is there, yet, he does not want to meet. He may possibly have issues with himself, have you seen a pic of him? If he is actually is married then it does make sense that he backs off when he notices that attraction becoming too much. Something is either right at the moment or it is not. if he has wife, no good come from him doing her. wrong If he does not have a wife then you would have to talk a look at the bigger issue - what would cause him to lie about that.0
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