I have recently found out that my husband of 9 1/2 years has been both talking and texting another woman. Last month cell phone bill had around 1700 texts. That was just his portion of the bill. Now not all of them are to the same woman but about 90% are. What should I do? I don't think that they have done anything physical yet but I think it is coming to that. Any advice would be appreciated.
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An affair is not limited to just something physical these days. Meeting someone online or texting them are just some of the many new ways husbands and boyfriends are able to explore with less risk of getting caught. Obviously however, they hold the same potential for hurting you emotionally as if was physically cheating.
I think it's best to tell him. You didn't spy or snoop on him, he got pretty careless and now it's even in his phone bill. There's no going around it, you have evidence and as his wife, you should demand some sort of explanation.0