We've been dating for 1.6 years but lately I felt like he didn't give me much time anymore. He isn't sweet and saying he was just tired and busy in College. I understand that he is tired from work because his work is physically tiring but at least he could give me time when I'm calling him. So lately I always wanna break up, because I told him I wasn't feel loved blah blah and he explained that I shouldn't feel.that way but days after situation was back and I started a fight about something and broke up with him. didn't talk to him for 6 didn't answer to his last message and he was posting quotes photos about he isn't feeling rright and tagging me but didn't send me a personal message. So because I missed him and wanted him back I send him message telling to delete my photos on his acccount and stuff but then we were good because I was giving him chance but then he doesn't seem interested when I even gave him a chance to make things right and he said he doesn't need it now because he is physically tired. So I got mad at him and we broke up but the next day I apopogize to him for getting mad because I felt like he didn't even care. He got mad and told me I shouldn't be playing games saying I'm done then I'm coming back and he got mad for all the things I've done but didn't even think about the things he have done to me. He didn't answer my calls and messages telling him we should at least have a formal breakup. The next day I called again and he text me he is doing paperworks then he said its better to break up because the same things will happen all the time and that he don't want it but have to do it. So I was hurt and just pretend I like his idea so I said OK, thanks for being that brave to let me go. Thanks for finally letting me go :) so do you think he will still come back because we broke up a lot of times before and he did too but he keeps on coming back after days. this is the 4th day we lose contact. Should I talk to him?
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I'm a girl (well obviously) and I think you overreacted. Your asking us if he will come back so obviously you didn't want it to be over? Why would you break up with him knowing you still wanna be with him. Your just taking advantage of the fact that you think he will always come running back but one day he wont. I don't know if your in college or not but don't you know how tiring it is? School can take out a lot in people, you say you understand but you don't your being really immature. Don't break up with someone unless your atcually serious about never wanting to be with them again because its pathetic and childish. As a girlfriend your suppous to be there for him during his rough time just understand his tired. I think you should apologize for being so selfish and immature and instead of going against him work with him. Its only temporarily you shouldn't be acting like a drama queen over it. Bring him coffee to help him study and tell him your there for him. He will fond a lot more respect for you and he will feel like you deserve to find time for.1