Hi, I'm a 20 year old virgin, who has never had a boyfriend before... I've kissed only a few times in my life, dated, but never got to have a serious relationship...
When a guy asks me out (yes, it happens often) but I don't feel attracted to him I tell him to invite his friends and I invite mine so we won't be alone on a date because that makes me feel kinda awkward..(because I'm not interested)
Is there something wrong with me? Should I try going out on dates alone with guys I ''like'' but don't feel attracted to them? Or should I just wait until the right guy appears?
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It sounds like your standards are too high. Likely the only guys you are attracted to are out of your league. I don't mean that as an insult. It is a common problem women have.
If you start to develop a closer emotional bond with a guy, attraction that wasn't there before can start to form. Going out with a guy you don't have the hots for, might work out.1