Just read a article on the internet that said that if you don't move fast with girls (he implied that you needed to have s#x on the first date), they'll start to think of you more like a "boyfriend/husband category" and be too worried to mess things up with you to actually do anything. The author was saying that the only way to get a girl was to move really quickly with them- aka, getting their phone number and setting up a date within 10 min of meeting with them, "inviting them home" after the first date, etc. What do you guys think about this view point?
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That would be for casual sex which you could then turn into a relationship. People say don't tell a girl your deep secrets until you've screwed her because it will just make her change her mind. If she's one of those typical girls who is looking for a trophy for her friends this definitely applies.
Think about it:
If a guy cheated on a girl and the girl found out about it and talked about it with her friends. Her friends would try to convince her otherwise. She'd then possibly drop him.
Now if the guy already slept with the girl and then he told her he has cheated in the past and she mentioned it to her friends, they'd tell her to dump him but she'd still likely defending him up and down saying he's a nice guy.
Once a girl has slept with a guy, there is a big chance she's gonna defend him up and down because dumping him after getting sexual with him so fast would make her fear she'd be viewed as a whore.0