I met a guy online and we have been chatting for the last 2-3 weeks. We tried to plan a first date (he initiated it) but he had to work. He seems interested but yet seems kinda spacey sometimes haha. We text a lot and I getting tired of the texting. I HATE texting and social media and all that crap. I was addicted, lost part of my life than decided that I wanted to live in the real world haha.
So I am getting to the point where I have no interest in texting anymore. I want to get to know him in person but not by texting. How should I say it? Worst thing that happens is he gives some crappy/rejection response but so what. I've never met him and at least I know that I went after what I wanted.
But I don't want to seem over bearing or clingy. How should I say it?
"I'll be frank, I would like to get to know you more, you seem like cool sh*t but I prefer to do it over face contact than texting. I hate texting. So if so, hit me up sometime. " To much?
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Too much, but I'd probably say that LOL. I don't think you should just tell him the problems but also offer a solution.
I'd say something more like. I'd really like to get to know you face to face are you free any time this weekend for dessert or a drink?