I met the person online, he asked on our second date if he would pick me up, I said I 'll drive. I'm sure he's gonna ask the same question again. so when to allow him to pick me up, and what do I reply till then?
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When I was active on dating sites, I didn't even give my name until after we chatted a bit. Then, I gave my first name only and we met after 1-2 weeks of chatting, met in a public place. I usually didn't let them pick me up or let them know where I lived until around the 3rd or 4th date. I was very careful and never had any trouble :-)
Just be honest and tell him you're trying to be careful, and that you'd just rather meet him. He should understand, I'm sure it's not going to be the first time he's heard that (being on a dating site and all).
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