We dated for 9 months and I had strong feelings for him but it was a messy breakup...I don't have feelings for him and I already told her it was OK and I wanted her to be happy but I wouldn't know how I would feel when I saw them together. How do I deal with this?
Most Helpful Girl
You made the mistake in saying it's okay :/
You can either try and slowly get used to it (trust me, it will take a while), or talk to her. Explain that you didn't realize how uncomfortable it will make you feel and that as much as you want her to be happy, you're afraid it will come between your relationship because you don't want to be around them. See how she responds and go from there. You're best off hitting it in the butt now rather than waiting until the relationship gets more serious.0