Ok I have been single for over a year now. And I don't know why. I don't think I'm bad looking at all. I am kind, sweet, charming, good sense of humor, strong bodied and very intelligent. I would never harm a woman in any way intentionally nor would I ever belittle a woman. I have standards of the kind of woman I would like to be with because of my past experiences and relationships. I know what I'm looking for. I have been on a few dating sites (eight to be exact) and have only met two women. One was just looking for a hook up and I don't really do that and the second, well her mother decided to step in and say I wasn't good enough because I was in the army and I didn't come from money. I am on Match.com even and I have been viewed by over 90 women and some of them aren't even my type but the only messages I have received are from scammers. Do I really look that bad and not know it? don't get me wrong I'm very confident in the man that I am but what does it take? I have no fear in talking to any woman at all and will always be the good guy. Ladies am I just not worth someones time? Please don't give me the cliche of the right one will come I just have to be paitent. I have been single for over a year so that's just going to make it worse. I'm just asking in honesty if anyone would see me as date worthy or relationship material. I like who I am and I like how I am and I wouldn't change any part of me for any reason other than my own. I again have standards of what I like of a woman inside and out (I have had experiences with many different types of women to get me to what my standards are to this day) and I would be a good if not great guy for her. Anyone care to tell me what the deal is?
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Are you going for your type? Are you posting your manga pics on the page?
Idk...I'm sure there are girls out there for you but I can't imagine you're looking at them or aiming your profile to suit them.
It really is a matter of time AND putting yourself out there. Not only should you use dating profiles...but GO OUT, hun. Find things you like...eventually you'll run into people who like doing those things too. And you'll have conversations and get closer.
Don't look at me and say "Well that's easy...you're a girl." Trust me, it doesn't make it easier to find someone you WANT in your life. I found my love on a dating site...and I did it because I can be kind of an introvert. I had to do something to put myself out there and MEET people.
Most of the guys confident enough to approach me weren't my type.
I knew I had to lighten up and meet many new people. The more people you meet...the more circles you become part of. You find out more about yourself and become part of more people's lives. Eventually you really will meet someone who will recognize how you stand out and appreciate it. Keep your head up, no cliche...just enjoy yourself.0