Should I talk to this guy on a dating site?

I've had my account but not active for over a year. Now that I'm out of college, have a job, and content with future goals, I would like to find a guy. But I'm very nervous and shy. I've found a guy that I could be compatible with. Should I send him a message? If so what should I say?! Or should I just "flirt" with him, which sends him an email saying I may be interested. I don't know what to say though! :/


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  • Send him a message! You can be flirty if you want, but I'd read over his profile and add in something you liked in it in your message. You can just say hi and that you are interested in getting to know him or you think he is cute. You can add a :) at the end too. Keep it short.