Most people agree that females are meant to date guys they grow to enjoy and feel attraction for, rather than those they feel it for quickly. I never know what to do in the meantime. To be fair, I am polite, split dates and keep an open mind, but often my desire to put in any effort fizzles out without a good motivator to keep me going. What am I doing wrong here?
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What to do when you're waiting for it to happen?
Perhaps it's suited to look around for better options while dealing with the current option.
What am I doing wrong here?
In my opinion what you are doing 'wrong' is listening to advice from a patriarchal society as such advice I find tends to be way more for guys' benefit than gal's benefit as this 'grow on them' bullsh*t and cowsh*t is more for guys to get gals that are out of their league and for guys guilt/shame the gals they want into dating them.0