If you met a girl and a few months down the road of you seeing her or dating her she found out she had an issue that would prevent her from ever having kids would you stop dating her? I just found out that children will not be possible for me and I'm scared that a guy will leave me because I can't have kids...ik having children is important to a lot of men...and it is important to me and crushes me deeply I can't.
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Months down the road? Who knows. If the topic has come up in the past and she knew that she was unable to have them then I probably would feel a bit deceived if she had not opened up about it at the time. If it was never broached, then it would be hard to say. It really just depends on the person involved. I know of men that have married women despite knowing they could never have children. A girl that I was seeing for some time also had a condition that would have made it extremely difficult on both herself and a possible child, but despite knowing that kids may not be in the cards I stayed with her until other things split us apart. All you can do is be open about it if it comes up. I know that it may be a painful subject to discuss, but the ramifications of withholding it may be worse.1