let' say the first 10 dates, should the man pick the date plan? since in most cases he's defining the nature of the relashionship?
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Whoever wants too. If you have an idea of for a date, you are an equal partner who can make that decision. Sometimes you might want to go somewhere familiar and comfortable for you so you could set things up. It is always cool to see a girl in her element/space when she plans things. Just like you like the surprise of a dates, many guys do too. It also shows if you were listening to him then you could do something they really like. 10 dates is +- 2 months which is a long time for one person to always be planning and initiating things. Most guys would expect to lead in the first 3/4/5 dates, but you can make your voice be heard at any time. This will be your relationship too0