I have seen so many guys here complain about how girls don't do the approaching and being shallow for not dating them.As a girl I don't think we have it easier.We have our issues too and we DO get friend zoned it just we don't brag about it.
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Because girls don't have to do much, or anything at all, to get a date. Guys are noticing that a lot of girls can get dates by simply walking down a hallway and letting a guy do all the work. The only "issues" I see girls having are from picking the wrong guys to go on dates with, then blowing it outta proportion. But honestly, these girls are attracted to those types of guys to begin with and getting off to the drama that follows.
The trouble is that we have too many girls not taking initiative and while it's easy to say "put more effort" in guys can see way ahead of time that if a girl is not putting effort in now to show mutual interest, she won't in a relationship either. Guys are looking for better quality women now who can prove that they are indeed women who can make their man feel appreciated like their man will do for them. I can make a girl feel hella appreciated. But why would I want to if she can't do the same for me?
Outside of dealing with perverts I really can't say I have met any girls who have dating problems that weren't already in a serious relationship sort of things where things got real personal. Girls main issues are primarily within their insecurities. The closest I have really seen is a girl who had some guy spamming her phone with angry texts. Easy solution is to block. I think girls make their own troubles look worse than they are.
As for friend zoning. Those are almost always based on physical attraction or something the girl has done to indicate a lack of faithfulness. Such things include having too many guy friends, not rejecting male advances, and so on. The thing is the girls will go back and blame it on the guy saying he has personal issues for her having guy friends when the guy mainly has a problem with the guy friends groping her and such.
Look at any guy who has complained about not getting a date, he's todl to "work on himself" and "Better himself" and so on. But if a girl makes the same question the people will tell her "Wait for the right one." They barely ever tell her to better herself. We assume she's perfect right from the start.8