There is this woman over 40 who is really interested in me and wants to see if we could have a relationship.. what would be your concerns or could you even try?
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there could only be 2 possibilities why she is interested in you:
1. she wants you as her boy toy sort of thing, and if that guy in your profile pic is really you, I can see why she would want that ;)
2. she really is interested in you as a person, and this is where you should be careful! Since you already said that you were scared when she mentions kids, then maybe it's better to not go for it. In your age you're probably still looking for the fun in relationships, while she's had it all, and is (more than) ready to settle down.
So if it's reason 1, go for it! If it's reason 2, I don't think it will be a wise decision to start anything with her.
Also, what will your parents think? My mom already hoped I won't get a guy who's old enough to be her brother! So dating a much older guy would just be too freaky for me.0