So I met a girl this year and we quickly became really good friends. We began texting a lot and it moved to start to hang out a couple times a week. I was never getting into it looking for a relationship, yet started to grow really strong feelings for her. We had a weird late night conversation this weekend and decided that maybe we should take a step back. After not talking to her the next couple days she texted me one night asking if I could give her a ride, which I did. She sent me a text later saying thank you and then said she felt really bad for everything going on and that she’s just a stupid girl who has no idea what she wants. She went on to say she has a good guy that is always there for her and still manages to be scared and mess it up. I’ve always known the “Don’t know what I want” line means she doesn’t have feelings for me. But it just seems different this time and was wondering if anyone has any opinions different from what that line truly means! Thanks!
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It means that there things about you that she isn't sure she wants to fully commit to.
These things could be anything.
Maybe she doesn't want to be in a relationship regardless of how good you are.
Maybe you have a quirk that she can't stand.
Maybe you aren't that attractive to her.
But she's made it pretty clear that she doesn't know what she wants, but she knows enough not to be in a relationship right now.
IMO you should simply ask her what the negatives are that are confusing her so much. Ask her if she's afraid of commitment. Ask her if she simply doesn't want you.
None of us know her, all we can do is speculate.0