i hung out with these 2 guys for the first time in about a year and a half and one of them messaged me a few days later thanking me for hanging out with them, saying he had a good time, and saying he wants to hang out again. then a few days later the second guy messaged me saying I should have offered the first guy to spend the night with me. I think it was a joke. but then the following day the first guy asked me when we were going to hang out again. this was only a week after we hung out and less than a week since he had thanked me for hanging out. he also said we should try to do dinner. I typically hear that the dinner suggestion usually implies a date but I haven't been on a real date in about 3 years so I'm a little rusty on that lol so how do I tell if he wants to "hang out" as friends or "hang out" as in go out?
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Advice: You simply ask him if he's not saying it straight out.
I thought I might have had a date earlier this year. I quickly learned that was not the case and then the girl got back with her ex (haha, and as I'm keeping it brief, I realize how that might sound, but I swear I didn't make her run back to him. Apparently they had very recently broken up, so I probably would've been a rebound anyway had we started dating).
In short, just ask what it is or make some sort of subtle move or question.0