a girl I like. I kind of think she wants me to kiss her but I dk... how do I know if she really wants me to?
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Biggest sign: arms crossed.
If her arms are crossed, don't even go for a hug.
Obviously my opinion doesn't count because I'm a dude, but on my first date with my now girlfriend it was beyond obvious. I knew I had to take my chance because she was all smiles and we both had a blast. When I was at her door she didn't want to go inside until I made some type of move, and I read this. I grabbed her by the shoulder and the small of her back and kissed her, and she now tells me at that moment she realized she couldn't let me get away.
My point? If it feels even just a little bit right, go for it. If she's smiling and enjoys your company, it's worth a shot as long as you're respectful about it.
It's worth noting that a kiss on the cheek is a safe bet. It shows you're interested but don't want to be too invasive. The down side is of course you don't have any reaction to gauge whether she felt it or not.
All in all, life is too short not to take risks. If it feels right, and you respect her, go for it.1