Okay so I've known this guy for about 2 years. We dating on and off throughout that time. I usually always turned him down though because I wasn't really interested in dating.
One night we got into a little argument through text. Then a month later he text me and we hung out. We had sex for the first time that night. Actually that was also our first kiss. For two years I never was interested in him in that way at all but then something just happen and I finally recognized his beauty.. (lame and cheesy I know but whatever)..
anyway, a few days later we get together and we're drunk. we have sex again. The next day we woke up was Thanksgiving so we both were gonna be busy for next few days.
I didn't hear from him for about 5 days which I expected as the holiday had arrived. So last night he text me from a different number and I asked him why.. he said "work phone, come to XXX" some restaurant in the town we live. I told him I wasn't interested. Then about 2 hours later he text me if he can come over.. So I said no and then when he asked why I just ignored him.
Do you think I have trust issues or am I right to think something is fishy.. like why suddenly using a "work phone". and even though I knew he would be busy for a few days who does he think he is texting me last minute to meet up for dinner and then when I didn't come he text me like for a botty call. ? Or am I overreacting? Thoughts? Opinions?
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Well, personally I know guys that do have extra phones for work, I don't think that you should think too much into it, but the big question is what do you want to come out of your friendship/relationship. He made it clear to you that he wants to date you, but you turned him down and so instead it became casual, it's like you two only have sex, but based on what you said I'm sensing that you're developing feelings for him cause you don't want to know if he has someone else..so I mean you should think about what you want and make it clear to him or else he'll just keep wanting sex and keep it casual..1