I'm 28 and I've never had a boyfriend before. What age range should he be in? How attractive should he be physically if I have a good face and an overweight body? How much money should he make in comparison to me? What type of personality should he have in comparison to mine? I don't want to aim too high that I can't get the guy but obviously I don't want to aim too low either.
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OK so here's the thing: yes it is good to have ideas of what you MIGHT like. but setting up all these strict limits of what a guy SHOULD be is unrealistic. The things you are concerned about in finding someone to date seem very superficial (age, attracitveness level, money). The only thing that matters is personality; if you see a guy taht you think is interesting, go talk to him, flirt with him and then leave the conversation before he does so you have a reason to make him ask for your number. Then play it cool, don't have sex with him until after he's committed, but do make him think you are sexy. If you're uncomfortable being overweight or with anything else about yourself, that will show through to him. I would say what you should be focusing on is loving yourself first and saying yeah I'm fuckin awesome any guy would love to be with me. That is when they will come :) and otherwise, find some hobbies and meet guys through things you enjoy, you'll automatically have something in common with them. Good luck! :)1