He is extremely attentive, phones, emails or texts constantly
Mad if I miss call. Sends rude text
One time snatched my phone out my hand to read my messages.
He hides his from me and always gets calls in my presence never answers though.says its his mom. When he's home he would whisper down phone. Even cut me off like he's hiding something.
He gets serious fast. Talks about the love of his life, or moving in together. Talk about kids
He is jealous – he has no mates. An I wanted to go out and he was invited too but he said don't go I want you to myself. Says he don't want guys looking at me. Said only time to go out will be with him.never wanted to go out or pay to take me out. I paid once.
Slags off my friend and says she will try to influence you. She isn't like that.
He blames others eg for his failed relationship. Saying they all cheated on him so he is scared to lose me. Almost playing victim to excuse his behaviour.
He doesn’t take notice of your feelings, ‘Don’t be silly…’"or shut up when I don't believe what he says. Either goes quiet on the phone or hangs up.
He is moody and unpredictable, an even admitted that when he's annoyed about something he takes it out on me usually but one time he said he is being like that with everyone.
accuses me of being unfaithful, or of flirting with other men.
An quizzes me the next day after I go out. Sent me abusive text once saying your loose bet you sucked a guy.
Always complimenting my looks and saying I am smart. Doesn't make plans in advance. Very short notice.asks for favours but never repays them. Brings uni work when he's spending time with me to see if I will 'help'. Over the phone asked me about his work and said I am doing this for 'us'. He even made bribes if you help me quickly I can get to see you then. Had the audacity to say if you pay my taxi will be there in no time. I refused.
Stood me up 5 times during relationship. Well whatever you'd call it.
A lot of issues he has right?
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Obsessive, impulsive, reclusive, secretive, blames others for his past failures, this is rather typical for those who cannot accept that they are fallible.
Yes, a lot of issues. My only question, to rather answer yours is; what does he bring to the table? Is he an interesting person? Does he have a high paying job? Is there any reason for you to excuse this insane behavior?
There is something seriously wrong with this fellow, a deep seated insecurity I wouldn't touch with a forty-foot pole, and that's only my initial impression, I'm sure that even if I met this unfortunate fellow, I wouldn't offer any more of an optimistic prognosis.
Psychology is one of the things I'm better with, and yes, I'd say that there is something deeply wrong with him, and even if not, you've got no reason to put up with the crap you're already going through from him.0
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