I join this dating site and find this really handsome guy who looks pretty decent and we started talking and find many things in common.I always wait to get his reply so as always I was eager to recieve his reply but I didn't recieve any reply from him today :( and that makes me very sad :( .He did check my profile and I can see him online but he won't reply.Do guys really loose interest that fast?i I Haven't even let him know about my admiration for him.I wonder why?
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Well, he might not have lost interest. He might be busy. Busy with life, busy with god knows what. He also might have seen your message and just not had the time to say something, or perhaps he doesn't have a logical place to continue the conversation. (I don't know what you were talking about., but that can happen, too.)
But yeah, like others said, he could be busy talking to other girls. In fact, you should expect this on an online dating site. Girls typically get flooded with tons of messages from guys (especially if they're gorgeous, have a filled out profile, and possibly something provocative in there) so, standard practice for most guys is to talk to a ton of people at once, because that's the best way to get results. So yes, it's entirely possible he could be talking someone else.
Yeah it's also possible he could have lost interest. But so what if he did lose interest? That's not something to take personally. You don't know that it was your fault. You don't know it had anything to do with you. You don't even know if he actually did lose interest. Even if he did, it's not a slight against you. It's not a measurement of your own self worth. It's nothing personal. So you don't have to be hurt by this.
Furthermore, you really do have to remember that there are a lot of guys out there. That's the best thing about online dating, is that it's practically a catalogue of people you can look at, see what you like, and go for it. If this guy doesn't work out, someone else will come along, and if you get tired of waiting, there's nothing saying you can't get proactive and just message a guy you like, by yourself.
Bottom line is, that as hurt as you might feel by this, you don't have to be. Just try looking at it differently. There are a lot of things you don't know, and for all you don't know, there are many ways this could be a lot less bad than you thought. Don't let this get you down.6
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