I have been seeing a "friend" for seven months. We started out as friends with benefits only sleeping together ever 2-3 weeks. Since I broke up with my ex a few weeks ago, my "friend" and I have been seeing each other more frequently. His friends label me as his girlfriend and it seems things are getting more serious than FWB.
On Monday we had plans but had a state-wide weather emergency. He claims he called while my phone was off but never left a message or text. I didn't text him or ask what happened. He text me the following day and apologized and said we could reschedule for this Sunday. I said I would phone to confirm.
Part of me wants to blow him off because I don't believe his story about earlier this week, "didn't feel well" and "couldn't get out of the driveway". Should I blow him off and give him a taste of his games?
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Blow him off without being obvious of blowing him off. Go have a fun weekend somewhere with some other friends. Before doing that call him before hand and give him the lame excuse that you promised your friends to hang out with them that weekend months ago and that you had forgotten about it. Do it nonchalantly and happy like you are really looking forward to that fun weekend. That will keep his mind turning wondering what could be more fun than hanging out and having sex with him. At the same time he can't be totally sure whether or not he is being blown off and then he will text you and call you while you are having a heck of a fun time with your friends.1