I have a very bad past and I don't have experiences that I need. I feel they won't look at me the same way as they would from before they knew or they would walk away... I know everyone has had a past but my past sometimes creeps back up into the present... I wonder how someone would take it... I don't really know because I was too scared to ask so I decided not to have a boyfriend what so ever because of it.
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It depends on what your past is and whether you are getting any help. What are you looking for in a man? Are you looking for a good guy or are you attracted to the bad guy and can't control it? The way I see it is we only have one life so make the best of it and don't let the world drag you down. Get your own projects and goals and do things for yourself that don't depend on others. Once you find something (for me it was surfing) then even if something terrible happens I can always go back to that.
Some guys are probably gonna try the rescue thing, just as girls (especially young ones) try to rescue the bad guy (I think we've all seen that) Most cases the guy just uses them until he gets sick of it and moves on. Anyway that's my 2 cents worth without any further info on what your bad past is. Cheers Paul.0