Has anyone been in that situation where you really like a guy and you go out and when the date is finished you say goodnight. You hug but don't pull away. You expected him to kiss you and ...he doesn't (for whatever reason). How did that make you feel?
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Were you recently the guy in this situation? Usually it will leave me feeling confused. I'll think a lot about it afterward. I will initially feel embarrassed, and unattractive/undesirable, and wonder if I did or said something wrong. I'll stay up all night thinking, scrutinizing every word I said, every joke I made, wondering if I put my foot in it. Then I'll wonder if maybe this guy only ever saw me as a friend, and I was interpretting everything wrong. Then I'll come to the mind frame that maybe he's just a gentleman, who doesn't want to make physical advances too soon, out of respect, and wants to get to know me better first. So naturally I'll feel a little embarrassed and silly, and will probably act a little less interested, and a bit apprehensive around him soon after that, to protect myself from further embarrassment, just incase he's not interested at all.1
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