i met with my crush for coffee, after that we barley spoke (only a couple of times online), I thought he wasn't interested in me so I left it at that...a month later he texts asking why he hasn't heard from me..i reply saying it was him I hadn't heard from...he takes 3 hours to reply...(he always takes long to reply, but not this long)
then a few days I text asking a random question, just to keep the conversation/contact going...he replied an hour later..
do you think he could be interested in me? what do I do?
additional details : even before all of this, we met and were in contact for a while online..i don't know how, but it somehow died down..
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wow 3 hours is a long time to reply? What if he was at a movie or with friends? I'm sincerely glad I don't accept texts now.
other than the texting, it sounds like he is unsure of your interest or is busy chasing other interests. I'd say you've got nothing to lose by taking the initiative and asking to hang out.
Another question would be whether you guys are BOTH making an effort to carry a conversation. Are you guys sending end of contact messages to each other or messages that are prompting responses?
Personally I hate taking a step back. Once the dating begins I don't want to waste time on the phone or via text when we could be meeting in person. So, I'd recommend dropping out or moving forward...not to the side with more text communication...just a waste of time imo.0