Someone that you've never talked to , possibly even known that existed.
I've met a couple of guys like this, online, who lived in my town. Others lived in the town over. There was this one guy I was talking to. He wanted to meet the next day after chatting with him for the first time the night before.. There isn't anything wrong with that, but I just wasn't comfortable yet. I'm just shy. I have been talking to him for a few days now, and he keeps trying to meet up. He knows that I live by this certain park, but that's all he knows. He got a little upset because I "stood" him up, when he went there one night. I never told him that I was coming or even to meet me there. The next day, I told him that I would probably meet him, but I was still iffy about that. I was wishy-washy about it with him, and finally said that I wasn't. I just wasn't comfortable, which I kept telling him that. He said that I was playing games. So I just stopped talking to him.
Even if the person stays in the same town as me, I want to talk to him for a while, maybe a week at the most , before meeting up with them. The further away they are, the longer.
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why don't you just be honest with him?
Tell him your a bit shy and not that comfortable and need some time before you meet up?
Sometimes it's GOOD and totally OKAY to be honest.
If I were him I'd ask you out too meet because I like you. So, therefore I would push for us to meet, since we must both sound interesting. But he can't also sit there forever and wait for you...
I say tell him the truth about how you feel and why.
And at some point just suck it up and meet in a public place. What's the worst that can happen? you get nervous and say something stupid? I'd bet he is as nervous as you too, but at least he is being a man and asking you out.0
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