Ok, I texted my guy friend, cause he called me up drunk last night and was disrespecting me. He has been pissing me off though lately cause he's talking/dating this girl again and she was so mean to him! She insulted him and everything, but yet he disrespects me? When I never insulted him and I always helped him out. Always gave him time and everything, and I am very supportive of him, so I texted him the next day to let him know how I felt. Here are the texts below, thanks!
Me: Hey. I understand that you were drunk last night, but I felt blatantly disrespected by you. I never disrespected you, if anything I always stood up for you, and like I said before, I have loyalty to my friends. I am there for you when in need, and I feel hurt that I was disrespected for no reason, even if it was just drunk talk, it still affects me cause either way I thought I was a good friend. I feel that I don't deserve disrespect, considering that I was always supportive, considerate and respectful towards you.
Him: What did I say? I asked you to come out lol
Me: Well you called me stupid and other names, and you said fuck you to me viciously, and I felt that was just rude.
Him: Lol. Oh. Okay. Sorry.
Me: I'm not looking for a apology or a fake one for that matter, I'm just letting you know how I feel. But ok.
Him: Lol don't take it personally Sara. Love ya. Sorry, it won't be the last time I call you a fucker, douche, or stupid etc. That's just me! You're not any of those I just like those words I guess lol
Me: I took it personally cause it didn't seem like you were joking, but maybe there are other girls that find that cute and funny but I'm not like other girls, lol
He didn't respond after that, so was I being rude? Do you think I stumped him? Or was he being rude about this? I'm sorry but the deep down issue is that he was out at a bar with a girl that insulted him and made a fool out of him, but yet he calls me up drunk and asks me to come to the bar and I decline and he starts disrespecting me. It pisses me off cause he is disrespecting the wrong girl! I am always there for him and never insulted him but yet he treats the other girl like she was gold? So what do you think? Do you think I stumped him? Do you think I was being rude? or was he? Thanks!
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I think you were well within your rights to let him know how you feel. He is probably sulking somewhere with his tail between his legs. He obviously needs his head read but from experience good girls/guys always get treated badly because of women/men like the person he is currently dating :-)0