I met this girl recently online. We text almost daily and everything seems good. I asked her the other day if I could call her when I got out of school. She said she was working later. I replied, well how about you just give me a call anytime if you want to talk. She said she could do that, but not today, she was working a double, but maybe after. She didn't call. The next evening she text me and we talked for a while. The next day, I text her to see when she was working, she was at that moment. I text her saying give me a call when you get off and to have a good day at work. She replied 'you too'. I never got a call. That was earlier today. Haven't heard from her since. Is there some people who just feel too uncomfortable to call, or should I seriously be questioning this?
Should I ask if she doesn't like talking on the phone next time I talk with her? Any advice would be appreciated, cause I don't get it. I am starting to like her, but it seems pointless if I can't talk to her on the phone. Really, the only reason I want to talk to her on the phone is to ask her out, think talking is better than texting for this. Thank you
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I seriously can't believe how many people don't like talking on the phone. After all, it was the original intent of phones before texting and apps ever existed!
I would definitely ask her if she just feels uncomfortable with this.
I will bring to the light though…whether you get her on the phone or not, definitely meet her in person in the near future. You don't want to waste your time investing in someone who is cat fishing you.2