so I met this guy online, he sending me messages and I replied immediately without seeing his profile, the conversation flowing good, he seems like a nice and friendly person, so when he asked for my messanger id, I gave him.
and then after we talk, I visit his profile and I found his picture doesn't look as I expected, beside he is quiet old (36, while I'm 22).
i tried to deny that look is not all that matters because he has great personality, but the further he know me, the eager he is to meet me in person, meanwhile the more I see his picture the less I'm interested, and started to feel scared and tend to distancing myself from him. but I feel bad doing that and make me feel shallow.
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Looks matter. They don't have to be the most important thing, but we'd be fools to say they don't matter at all.
No matter the guys personality, and no matter how confident he is in his looks or personality, he HAS to know by age 36 that some people are just not going to find him attractive.
You might as well tell him that you're one of them. The longer you don't say anything, the more likely he is to think that you're one of those girls who DOES find him attractive. And it's going to hurt more when you tell him the truth.1