I was upset with my fiancee the past two days because he was acting like a jerk. I first texted him to see when he was coming to my apartment and he doesn't text me back until an hour later, meanwhile I sent three texts to see when he was coming over so I could get a timeline. Then he finally calls me and tells me I'm acting crazy because I kept texting him. Then while we're having sex he asks me in the middle of why we don't have my roommate join, then he follows with an "I'm joking". Then at eight o' clock he falls asleep because he's too tired. Which sucks because I expected to actually spend time with him today.
Now today I'm mad at him and nearly in tears because he flips out over texts that I didn't call him fast enough. So when he finally calls me back and I'm upset he just laughs at me and tells me that I should be in a better mood when he comes over later. How should I tell him he should be more considerate of my feelings or should I be more stern with him?
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Just tell him that he's hurting your feelings and should be more considerate of you. Tell him thar the comments that he makes hurts and that you feel belittled because he doesn't take you serious when you're angry.
... And if that doesn't work hit him with a shovel.1