He seems great so far. He's 32 and I'm 22 however then only thing that genuinely puts me off of him is the fact that he believes in aliens. I thought that was a childish thing but he really believes in UFOs etc. is this weird? I find it strange.
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There are a lot of adults who believe in aliens. I'm personally more of a skeptic, but I've met plenty of otherwise rational people who believe in aliens.
Unless you are one of those people who is really narrow minded, and only believes what you see on TV or are taught in school, this by itself shouldn't bother you.
However, it could be a red flag, if he shows other signs of extreme paranoia or delusional thinking. You have to decide if he's just a normal guy with a slightly eccentric belief (and though believing in aliens may seem weird, a lot of political beliefs are even weirder) or if he's a tin-foil hat crazy person who lives in their own reality. The latter may seem fun at first, but is usually a sign of a personality disorder that will cause problems in a relationship.0