Do you think opposites attract or are you more attracted to similar guys?
Most Helpful Girl
I like when a guy's personality is different from mine, but his views and values are the same. I feel that is a great match. For example, I am a closed person. It is very hard for me to express myself and my feelings, and to open up to someone. There are literally only two people in the world I feel comfortable enough to share my emotions with, and even then I struggle to find the right words to say. I find it difficult to truly forgive and forget, although I am a very amiable, even-tempered person who is diplomatic and can get along with most people.
That said, I would like a guy who expresses himself very easily and connects easily with others. Someone who is compassionate and understanding. Someone who finds it natural to forgive and forget. The reason why I would want him to possess those qualities is so that he could teach me how to be that way. I want to be able to express myself better, and be less judgmental when it comes to how I view others.
Despite the rather drastic personality differences, though, I would definitely need someone who agrees with my point of view and morals and shares my way of thinking.2