I seriously don't understand. Not to be conceded but I'm a pretty good girlfriend, like I don't take him away from his friends, I don't tell him what to do, I never yell at him or get pissed at him, I'm understanding, I don't cry constantly, I don't tell him not to smoke, drink, or party (even thou he doesn't really party) I don't freak out when he speaks to another girl, I don't make him text me all damn day, i don't force him to do what he doesn't want to, I don't make him take me on dates, I'm not controlling at all I let him live his life cuz I know I don't want to be nagged at and told what to do so why would I do that to him. I wouldn't want to be told I'm doing wrong all the time it would get so annoying and I wouldn't think guys would like that either. But a lot of other girls I know are crazy and they have boyfriends for years and guys complain about them but say well I love her so I deal with it but for some reason guys get bored of me and I never have a guy "love me so they stick with me no matter what" like those crazy girls. Like some girls I know make them text them all day, they don't let them talk to girls or they freak out, they're pms crazy, don't let them hang with their friends, tell them what to do, get mad, are annoying, constantly bitching, don't let them party, make them write them long messages on why the guy likes her but they manage to keep a boyfriend for years!!! Like why do guys always end up leaving me, I'm not that bad of a girlfriend. I just don't understand! Does being controlling and crazy make the relationship last or something?
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Some guys are drama addicts and the tougher the relationship is for them, the better. I think it keeps them entertained and it keeps them from getting bored. Boredom is lethal to any relationship and well being an obnoxious self absorbed diva will assure you of having him around in your life vs. mousy let me please you all the time.
Another thing is that there are many men who want the woman to lead in the relationship and if the woman doesn't take a leadership role they dont stay with that woman. Problem is with some women, myself included, I loose interest in a guy when I take control. So yeah... I could have a relationship with a pushover but I rather not.
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