I'm a university student who has never been on a date and I'm aware that it's really hard to find a girl after school ( I can't even manage now ;) ) so I'm wondering if you got some tips for me.
I'm tall a bit too much weight but below average in general but I feel like my approach is all wrong to begin with.
I'm not outgoing since I'm ashamed of my looks and figure why bother talking to a girl.
I'm just hoping someday I'll do it right and get to go on my first date.
Thank you for answering !
Most Helpful Girl
One thing you should remember is to never put a girl up on a pedestal. I think this is a mistake many guys have made, and in the end they come to GAG with bitterness and resentment, saying that they've been rejected 200 times by girls. Once you put someone on a pedestal, your actions become less natural and depending on your acting skills, you might come across as creepy.
I'd say talk to girls in a platonic kind of way, and once you realize that there's a connection there, that's when you can start being a bit flirty. Girls tend to put their guards down a little when we don't think the guy is trying to get into our pants but wants to get to know the person instead.0
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