Guys: What to do if I notice he's pulling back?

Been dating a guy for just over 5 weeks. I've noticed he seems to pulling back. I used to hear from him by text when he woke up and randomly throughout the day. The last couple of days (since I felt like he's pulling back) I've initiated contact by texting him when I've not heard from him. He isn't as quick to respond when we do text throughout the day. After hanging out he used to make plans to see me before we said good bye. But not anymore.

I don't want to be annoying or needy but am so curious as to what is up!

In this situation, it is best to:

  • Let him be; he will come to me if there is a problem.
    Vote A
  • Assure him that he can talk to me if something is up.
    Vote B
  • Flat out ask him if something is up.
    Vote C
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What Guys Said 1

  • I've been doing the same thing he is with my girlfriend. Not intentionally though, I just like taking some 'me time'. That or I'm just busy. I also started playing videogames again which is a contributing factor.


What Girls Said 1

  • Give him space
    Don't smother him with attention

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