I've been on two dates with a girl I met online. I kind of scheduled a third date for this Sunday. Well we went out on the first date, and I called a few days later to schedule the second, but the only day she was off work was next week, but she had that day off. So I kind of impromptu hung out with her that night as a second "date" if that matters. Anyways, we didn't have anything planned for Sunday, just that we would see each other sometime. Now though I don't think I'm into her that much. I know I need to cancel plans for Sunday, but beyond that I need some advice. Do I need to actually tell her I don't want to see her anymore? Can it just be assumed that if I canceled the third date and didn't reschedule that I'm not interested anymore? She seems to be really into me by the way she talks, and texts very often.
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Yeah I agree with the person below. Please don't ignore her. This has happened to me a few times and it.. drives me crazy when a guy is super aggressive at first, and then disappears. I've had guys who I wouldn't hear from and then the day of, I would text/call to make sure we still have plans and then I don't hear a thing back. And if you ignore her + she likes you, she might just be more persistent to try to figure out what's going on, so save her and you the hassle.
I would just be honest. Like, "Hey I really like you, but I don't think I want to date you so I'm going to have to cancel the date we planned on Sunday. Sorry."0