I just feel like I have an issue being too nice I always end up having trouble turning down guys I am not really interested in. I don't lead them on, I just feel bad friend zoning them. How do you do that without ruining the friendship?
Whats the best/nicest way to tell a guy no?
What Guys Said 9
Its hard to do. Guys a lot of times don't want to be friends they want more than that. They don't want to eventually see you with someone else and feel bad. I don't know what else to say other than just be honest and tell them. I had this happen once and she just came right out and said, I like you a lot but I really don't see this being more than we already are (which was friends). The earlier you do it in the relationship, the better. Don't even give them a chance to ask you out. After she did that, it didn't really hurt and I really respected her for being so honest and up front. Its much easier for both of you if that's the way its handled.0
How about "I am sorry I cannot possibly fit something of that size in me. That is the biggest I have ever seen"2
There is no friendship most of the time. Him auditioning to be your bf may be very pleasant but he's not going to do it forever.0
It can be hard. Girls often never come right out and say directly that they are interested. They're indirect the whole time and it pisses me off because I can never just directly say no thanks. Best thing is just to say you're not interested in anything romantic with them but you'd like to be friends. Then let them decide what they will do.0
The nicest way I was ever told no was an Irish woman who said, 'I'm just a mammy darning socks.."0
If they dont respect your polite, oh i had no idea im very flattered but im really not in the market at the moment, then they aren't friends me dear!0
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